Tuesday, January 10, 2006
Who Is The Real Me?i think there is definitely something wrong with me.. i think i'm turning possessive.. i think girls hate that alot.. i think even guys can't stand possessive girls.. well, i'm not one of them.. i prefer my girl to be possessive and i stick to her than vice versa..
sometimes i wonder, where is the line which separates concern from possessive-ness.. is possessive-ness a sign of commanding a person to yourself? telling the world that she cannot be touched at all? no possessive guy that i heard of, managed to hold a relationship well..
so.. the question is... am i a possessive guy or not??
possessive-ness in a guy starts from the first time she says "no lah.. nothing lah..", the guy sensed something was hiding from him and he went out to find out.. he became suspicious and wonder for the worst-case senarios.. i hate possessive guys.. i think they are depriving others of a chance of living the way they wanted..
but hearing from some ppl in my company, i agreed to a fact that lives will be different after 2 ppl became a couple but it doesn't mean we shld change our lives totally just to suit the lifestyle of the other.. here's a quote that my buddy sent me..
"i dun think it's a time to blame but a time to reflect..is it that we're too naive or is it that we cannot accept failures? is it due to our ego which believe that everything must be so perfect that we neglect other's convenience by assuming that they're thinking the same way as we do?"when sometimes we met up with rough patches when living together, are we going to pint-point what we can't stand her, or shld we keep inside us to prevent conflicts.. i'm glad
summer and i are very straight-forward ppl and we dun keep things within us.. we'll talk it out and have a discussion.. i dun believe there's anyone out there able to spoil anything between us..
what we went thru is not what most couples did and everytime the bond is strengthened, rather than weakened.. i feel myself loving her more each day.. and as what
summer said before..
- last time you said "i love you" and i said "okie", you got so happy..then as time goes by when you said "i love you", i must change to "i love you too"then when you said "i love you", you must put a kiss inside..then when you said "i love you" with a kiss, i must put a kiss inside too..and now, when you said "i love you" with a kiss, i must put a kiss and somemore a big kiss -i believe that as time goes by our expectations of each other grows.. but have i turned more possessive as time goes by?? is the above words in bold showing them out?
this morning, the silly girlfriend of mine asked me "你爱我吗?" well, of course i do.. here's something only for you,
summer..
I miss you when something really good happens, because you're the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you're the one who understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry, because I know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow, and me tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but... I miss you the most when I lay awake at night, and think of all the wonderful times that we spent with each other for those were some of the best and most memorable times of my life.你爱我吗 - 范逸臣我的手握着方向盘
眼神停留在陌生的前方
周末夜晚拥挤的路上
我们能不能走到山顶上
你就坐在我的身旁
为什么心却生活在他方周
围夜色如此得迷乱
沉默中听见不安的试探
你爱我吗 我可以这样问你吗
你爱我吗 你给我的温柔是寂寞吗
你爱我吗 你心里还有遗憾吗
你是真的爱我吗
城市里灯火正辉煌
我们的未来在什么地方
周末夜晚天空正闪亮
幸福是不是还握在手上
你就靠在我的肩膀
为什么心却沉没在远方
窗外天空依然还温暖
叹息中发现不只是不安
你爱我吗 我可以这样问你吗
你爱我吗 你给我的温柔是寂寞吗
你爱我吗 你心里还有遗憾吗
你是真的快乐吗你爱我吗
你爱我吗 你这样问过自已吗
你爱我吗 你给我的拥抱是习惯吗
你爱我吗 你的心里还是唯一吗
你爱我吗
你是真的爱我吗
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SummerLove winks
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